Did I ever go out wiv u, wat was I thinkin????

Lol, I was talkin wiv ma gurl today and telling her about my new blog n stuff n how to engage peeps, she suggested that I bring up topics that peeps can relate to...so here goes...
Anyways, she started telling me about someone she was dating back home in Ghana, she went bac this past december for hols, so she kinda bumped into the guy at da club, (lol ma friend s a fool) looool she was like _____, I couldnt blive it, this guy was like da hottest guy in my sch, meaning da baddest, he had the nice car, clothes, n all those nonsense material things u kno, da guy gurls wanna date n guys wanna be like...anyways she said she couldnt blive it, he was still cute n stuff, they chatted, exchanged phone #'s dat ish.. so this guy came to visit her the next day and after one convo, she was jus laughing, she couldnt blive that she once thought the world started n ended wiv this guy...lol she was like _____, we r so different, he is so immature, materialistic, still into his bad boy image, talks only bout weed, makin dough, girls, american wanna-be that kinda ish... lol she was like, I was jus laughing cos we were on two totally different mindsets and stages in life......

So I just wanted to throw it out der, have u ever been wiv someone before or had a crush on someone so bad that he/she was all u thinked about, met them some years later and wondered how you could ever have been crazy bout them?
Maybe its not because of material differences or educational differences or career differences, its just that you guys have CHANGED period.....you sit down and ask yourself and reminise on life and LOL cos its just too funny, peeps change, situations change, society changes period....some for better some for the worst....but whatever changes might have gone on in your life or is going on in our life, just remeber that you are the master of your own destiny, you control your life and your choices, we make our own choices not wait for the world to give you one....

At what stage in our life do we need realize we have change?